I used to think my sucess was all about what I 'had', I worked hard and 'had' so much more than others my age but deep down I wasnt really happy, I didnt feel secure.
Sometimes life takes you a full circle to teach you a lesson and when I lost everything I thought was important to me, the business the house, the money, the status, I couldnt see a future.
I spent a year in self induced misery, mourning the loss, feeling like there was nothing left in my life.
I dont know why my eyes where closed, but at some stage I realised I still had everything, my health, my husband and my daughters THAT was when my life changed.
When I realised it was ALL within my control and it was ME who directed my future and it was ME that directed my hapiness, things changed.
I made peace with the past and moved towards the future, slowly and steadily I rebuild, I take time to walk along the beach, to smile and have fun, I AM happy.
And 'Happy' is when you know you have 'made it', 'Happy' is THE BEST place to be.